Tuesday, September 04, 2012

Family Movie Nights! "Easy A" Family Review

We love movies.  LOVE THEM.  Before the housing market crashed, my husband had a full-time Custom Home Theater business.  Now, it has to squeeze between home and his "part time" 40 hour a week post office job.

However, because of that business, we ended up with some pretty nice home theater equipment.  We don't have it properly installed yet, but we couldn't wait any longer.  We had to try it out for our first family movie night since moving into our new house!

I love love love having a nice big living room where we can all fit to watch a movie and we even have room for guests!  Not that we've had any for a movie night yet, but we'll get there someday.

Temporary and hokey, and yes, barely set up without duct tape, but it works for now!  Look at that nice big picture!  We have a theater at home:)

Easy A Review

Anyway, for our first movie night, we watched "Easy A" with Emma Stone.  I had already told my aspiring actress daughter Paris that she reminds me a lot of Emma Stone when she's playing a quirky, goofy type character, because that is SO Paris' personality.  So, we chose this movie to watch so that I could illustrate my point.  Which I did.  Very well:)

The movie was a hit.  I'll be the first to say that we let our kids watch movies that most may not.  We watch them together, and honestly, I've found that it brings up a lot of conversations that we otherwise wouldn't have.  I find it comforting to know that our kids feel like they can talk with us about things, that they can see problems and issues with people on the screen... and they know it is just a movie.  The girls have both been on several movie sets, so maybe they have an even better perspective of that.

Anyway, Emma Stone's character is outcast as a "slut" after a lie she tells her friend gets out of hand.  It actually came up from our public school Junior that this particular plot twist seems ridiculous, as in high school, every seems to find it 'normal' to be sexually active.  Granted, he only has one year of public school under his belt (he was homeschooled up until last fall, then went to Public school at his request), but that was my memory of high school, too, that no one cared and pretty much the only people who stood out were the ones that were very vocal about NOT having sex.  That brings up an opportunity to talk about our thoughts, our values and even our mistakes in our own past.

I find that the conversations come up often over the following days and weeks, even, sometimes when the kids are one on one with me, sometimes at the dinner table, but it opens discussions.

The stereotypical Christian goodie-two-shoes in the movie was incredibly off putting.  I know she was supposed to be, but there are far too many of the type out there, the "let me put myself on this pedestal and pray for you as I berate you behind your back" types.  I don't even think its JUST Christians that do this, not in the least, but I find it incredibly off putting when people hide their actions behind a label of Christianity that in my opinion is decidedly UN-Christ-like.  Again, it was good for conversation.

I like the movie.  I find Emma Stone to be entertaining.  I found her family in the movie to be highly entertaining.  I love it when a non-typical family and teen are portrayed in a movie in a good light.  I get sick of the "all teens are rebels and hate their parents" and "all parents have given up and just know their teens are horrible rebellious people" attitude that I see in a lot of television shows especially.

I think if your children are younger, this probably isn't a movie for your family.  If you have teens and you are a pretty open minded family, you'll probably love it.  If you're pretty conservative and don't want your children exposed to the concept of sexually active/partying/foul mouthed teens, definitely steer VERY clear of this movie.  For us, we've always said that we're happy to watch most movies with our kids, as long as they continue to behave by our family's standards and not by mimicking imaginary characters in a movie.

Anyway... fun movie, fun characters, some of my favorite actors, I give it a thumbs up!

*Since my kids then watched it again the next night, I say they must have enjoyed it as well.

Next Family Movie Review:  DodgeBall



Sunday, September 02, 2012

Pets! A New Member of the Family: The Newest Diva

I have never been an animal lover.  For years I said that we weren't going to have pets at all...

Then we lived out in the country and stray cats were everywhere and my kids fell in love.

So then I said, "Okay, no INSIDE pets.  Ever.  Period.  No matter what!"

And then we got Sedona.  She was part wolf, part Siberian Husky, and she was the most gloriously beautiful dog.  She was an outdoor dog, she had plenty of room to run and she was a happy dog.  Then we moved to a rental house in Tulsa, and we had to find a family for her.  She went to another home, with another family with young kids and a huge yard to run around in.  That was heartbreaking for my husband, and then HE was the one that said, "NO MORE PETS."

Then we lived on the road and he found 'Sugar' a yellow lab that became the next "Best Dog Ever".  We had her for four years, until the day when we were away on vacation and the pet sitter called to tell us that something was wrong.  Some person was randomly poisoning dogs throughout the neighborhood.  Sugar didn't survive.

Patrick and the kids were especially devastated.  He really said "NO MORE PETS!!!"

It was heartbreaking.  The kids were ready for another dog long before Patrick was.

Then Sprite got a cat that we named Elephant.  Who apparently is not amused at being woken from her nap.

Then we got Jaedin a part Siamese cat for his birthday...He named her "Boo" but dogs were still a "NO!"

Then a year later, I was at a garage sale with the kids, and they had these adorable little balls of fur and the kids fell in love.  Because my husband is the pet picker outer, I called him to come and have a look.  He loved one of the puppies enough, that we had a new dog.  We named her Kitty.
She kind of blends in with the futon, she's a big old ball of shaggy black fur.

Now, Kitty is still around, Elephant is still around, there are no more fish, but we have a Python named Attila.  Paris and Kainan have been BEGGING to be allowed to get a couple of ferrets, but Patrick has put his foot down and repeatedly say, "NO MORE PETS!!!"

Until yesterday.  A friend posted this on facebook...

My husband of the "NO MORE PETS" saw this and immediately responded that if I was okay with it, he would go take her.  "For a trial run" (Lol, he's already so in love with the dog 12 hours later... no way would he give her up now:)

He came home with this gorgeous "Diva" just under 24 hours later.  It would have been sooner, but he had to work late:)  He's such a softie for dogs...

The Diva meeting Kitty

Meeting Jaedin & Kainan

Checking out the whole house

This is one big dog!  Although Patrick keeps commenting how surprised he is at how small she is for a Mastiff.

Doing her three turns around the bed that she claimed (Paris got pushed to the floor:)

Getting some good night hugs from Jaedin.

This morning Kitty and The Diva got into a fight when The Diva tried to step foot on what is apparently Kitty's futon.  I broke it up and separated them for a while... all is well now.  She's inspired and energized our previously lazy dog, the kids love her and Patrick's been playing with her since he got home ten minutes ago, so I think it will all go well!

Are you a pet person?  Show me your pets!